The Ten Rules of Wong Kar-wai's "Flowers"

A survival guide to teach you how to deal with others

1: A person with the ability to learn will achieve true economic freedom, so do what you want to do quietly, and find ways to solve difficulties when encountering them.

2: Look at yourself levelly, neither humble nor arrogant, keep learning, learn to let go, and walk at your own pace.

3: In this life, there are only a few moments when people are happy and angry. Most of the time, everyone has their own helplessness. Don't take yourself too seriously, don't talk too much, and don't argue with villains about winning or losing. Don't look down on anyone and don't dwell on the past.

4: Be your own backer. Emotional matters are about the right time, right place, right people, and the right people. Any deviation will be a waste of time.

5: Sophistication of people, interpersonal relationships, everything is icing on the cake, the core is ability, execution, decision-making, and perseverance.

6: Everyone has a steelyard in their heart. They know when they can share wealth and honor, and when they can share adversity.

7: A layman looks at the facade, an expert looks at the back door.

8: Getting ahead is the process of being taught a lesson. All the gifts given by fate have a price secretly marked on them.

9: I am my own dock. The reality is cruel. Mountains will fall if I rely on my backers, and I will run away if I rely on everyone. Only relying on myself is the right way.

10: Uncle Ye left the last words to Abao, take a step back.