Let's talk about the fact that marriage is the most important investment in life from a female perspective. Let's take a look at the views of Qian Zhongshu's wife Yang Jiang: Yang Jiang said: "If you marry a poor person, you will be responsible for his ignorance, debt, disaster, all his harm, wrong ideas, and the stupidity, laziness, and chaos of his family. You are responsible for everything. What should you use to be responsible? Use your life, wealth, career, and the cost of your future to be responsible." What kind of man is worth marrying? "There is no standard answer to this question, but one thing is certain: "Don't marry a man who is too poor." Why? The life of the poor is full of endless hardships and challenges. Material poverty may destroy a person's dignity and self-esteem, while spiritual poverty can even exhaust several lifetimes of reincarnation. I once saw a letter from a mother to her daughter in the circle of friends. The letter said: "Daughter, as your mother, I have always let you pursue what you want, give you freedom, and teach you to love yourself. But there are some things I must tell you. Last week, I met the boy you like very much. Although he has the same academic qualifications as you and looks gentle and refined. However, if you consider him as your marriage partner, I am not at ease because: he is too "poor". If he is only poor in money, there is still hope, but the bad thing is that he is also poor in spirit.