What makes you suffer is not the coldness of others, but the illusory expectation in your heart that you don't want to let go.

Don't let endless thoughts erode your heart, learn to gently hand over those regrets to the river of time and let it slowly take them away.

Excessive sobriety may be covered with a thin coat, and appear indifferent and alienated because of insight into everything, lacking some warmth and affection.

And if you indulge too deeply, you will easily fall into a superficial fog, thinking that love is a blind and impulsive instinct, and there is no need for rational scrutiny.

Therefore, the ideal state of life should be a harmonious dance of sobriety and intoxication, half of which is rational sobriety and insight into the world; half is emotional intoxication, embracing life, which shows the perfection and richness of life. $SOL